The story of Esther is a true picture of what a princess should be. It has all of the elements of the princess stories that our girls watch and dream about becoming. Esther is a brave, beautiful woman. This lesson allows us to bring forth a godly woman worthy of our daughters' enchantment. It is also another example of God's persistence in protecting the Israelites from complete ruin.
Esther was a beautiful young Jewish woman living in Persia. Remember what happened to the Babylonian kingdom after Belshazzar? Remember "mene, mene, tekel, parsin"? The Babylonian kingdom was divided between the Medes and the Persians. The story of Esther is set about 100 years after the Babylonian captivity, and about 60 years after Babylon fell to the Persians. The King of Persia at the time was King Xerxes (some translations give his name as Ahasuerus).
Esther was a Jewish orphan. Mordecai was her cousin, who raised her as if she were his daughter.
This story is a little longer than normal in that it encompasses a 10-chapter book. However, it is still possible to read the whole book in 1 or 2 sittings.
Xerxes, King of Persia, was the most powerful man in the world. He held a festival to show off his riches and influence. During the festival, he wanted his wife, Queen Vashti, to come and dance before him and all his officials. (Note for the adults: at this point in the party, Xerxes was very drunk, and the innuendo here is that he wanted Vashti to come and dance with either no or very little clothing to "entertain" his guests.)
Xerxes became furious, removed Queen Vashti from her office as queen, and held a "beauty contest" to find a new queen. Esther was taken from Mordecai's house to take part in this contest. King Xerxes loved Esther and made Esther queen, but the king did not know that Esther was a Jew, because Mordecai told her not to reveal her identity. The full story can be found in Esther 1-2.
Haman was an advisor to the king. Haman hated Mordecai because Mordecai refused to bow down to Haman. So Haman plotted to destroy the Jewish people. Haman descended from the Amalekites. Refer back to Exodus 17. God promised to erase the memory of the Amalekites from the earth. That is why, during the festival of Purim (see the Purim party activity below), everyone makes loud noises whenever Haman's name is spoken, so no one can hear it.
Then Haman said to King Xerxes, "Certain people are scattered among the nations. They live in all of the territories in your kingdom. Their practices are different from the practices of all other people. They don't obey your laws. It really isn't good for you to put up with them." Esther 3:8. The King gave Haman permission to do as he pleased with the Jews. So Haman planned to kill all of them.
Mordecai persuaded Esther to speak to the king on behalf of the Jewish people, with the famous question, "Who knows? It’s possible that you became queen for a time just like this." (Esther 4:14). This was a dangerous thing for Esther to do, because anyone who came into the king's presence without being summoned could be put to death, and she had not been summoned.
Esther fasted for three days to prepare herself, then went in to speak with the king. He welcomed her. Later, she told him of Haman's plot against her people.
The King was not happy that Haman had plotted against Esther's people, so he had Haman hanged on the gallows that he had prepared for Mordecai. Esther then asked the King to revoke the decree Haman had him sign into law to have the Jews destroyed. But the King cannot revoke a law he enacted. So he allowed the Jews to fight back, and God gave them the victory in battle.
In Esther 9, we learn about the holiday or party that the Jews still celebrate today to remember Esther, Mordecai and how they saved the Jewish people. See the "Purim Party" activity below. During Purim, the Jews read the whole book of Esther. Every time they hear Haman's name, they hiss and boo.
People of every age can be encouraged by the story of Esther to allow God to use them wherever they are. Sure, they might not be kings or queens, but kids can think about where God has placed them. Who in their family needs to be shown God's love? What kids at their school get overlooked or picked on? Who in your church needs to be cared for? Who knows, but that God placed them right where they are so they could be used by God to care for those people?
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What is your favorite princess movie? (the boys in your class will probably react very negatively to this, which you can encourage if you wish :))
Today, we are going to learn about a queen in the Bible who allowed herself to be used by God to save the Jews.
Read story from a Children's storybook Bible for younger children.
For older children, read the story from an age-appropriate Children's storybook Bible or tell the story yourself.
Scripture for Kids to Read Aloud Esther 2:5-18, 3:5-6, 4:1-17, 7:1-10
First, ask the children if they have any questions about the story. What to do if you don't know the answer?
Purim is a Jewish holiday that commemorates the deliverance of the Jewish people in Persia from Haman's plot to kill all the Jews.
Purim is celebrated a month before Passover. It is one of the most festive Jewish holidays.
"These days should be remembered and observed in every generation by every family, and in every province and in every city. And these days of Purim should never cease to be celebrated by the Jews, nor should the memory of them die out among their descendants." Esther 9:28
Ways to celebrate:
Play the game Headbands
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Write words on index cards.
Tape a card to the back without the kids seeing the card.
They ask questions of the rest of the class to try to guess the word on their back.
Have kids decorate a card with the phrase "For such a time as this" and write or draw one thing they think God might be calling them to do right where they are.
Give each child a printed Esther Crossword Puzzle and work through the answers together.
Reinforce each part of the story as they get the answer correct to check for comprehension.
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