Bible Story

This Week's Scripture

John 3:1-21; John 7:45-53; John 19:39

Story Summary Below is an overview of the Bible story from this week

The story of Jesus teaching Nicodemus contains the most famous Bible verse of them all, John 3:16. Let's look at this person named Nicodemus who approached Jesus at night to speak with him.

  • Nicodemus was a member of the Jewish ruling council, so he was a very important person in Israel at the time.
  • He came to Jesus at night (some might say this was the first Nic at Night…), probably because he was aware that the other Jewish leaders weren't happy with the things Jesus was teaching and the fact that Jesus had claimed to be the Son of God. 
  • Notice when he approaches Jesus, though, he starts with a much lesser claim, “we know that you are a teacher who has come from God” (John 3:2)
  • Then he and Jesus have this back and forth teaching opportunity. Well, it is mostly Jesus talking and Nicodemus listening.
  • We don't know how Nicodemus responded to what Jesus was teaching, but we do have a record of 2 other times in the book of John where he was mentioned.
    • In John 7:45-53, he stepped in and tried to calm down the Jewish leaders who were beginning to step up their attacks on Jesus. He doesn't directly confess faith in Jesus as the Son of God here, but he asks a question that at least makes the other Jewish leaders question his loyalty.
    • In John 19:39, we see that he helps Joseph of Arimathea bury Jesus' body after he was crucified. He does not speak in this record of his actions, but if he was willing to prepare Jesus' body for burial, this is a strong indication that his faith had grown from that first encounter.

Now, let's look at what Jesus actually taught Nicodemus that night. 

  • You must be born again if you want to enter God's Kingdom (3:3): this totally confused Nicodemus. Before this talk with Jesus, the thought of someone being born twice was just crazy talk. But Jesus was giving Nicodemus an incredible truth here: there is physical birth and there is spiritual birth. 
  • God sent Jesus to earth to save anyone who believes in him (3:15-16): faith in Jesus is what gives us eternal life. This is the second birth.
  • When we believe in Jesus, the light turns on and we can know what is true and do what is good (3:19-21): Doing what is good is a result of being born again, not what makes us born again. Only faith in Jesus as the sacrifice for our sins will make us right with God. 

Videos

God's Story - Nicodemus
From Crossroads Kids Club
Nicodemus
From Kids on the Move

Resource Sheet

Jesus and Nicodemus Coloring Sheet
This coloring sheet depicts Jesus teaching Nicodemus at night. The pictures at the top represent aspects of Jesus' teachings that night.

During the Week

Comprehension Questions you can ask your child these questions to see how much of the story they remember

  • Who was the man who approached Jesus at night with some questions?
  • Nicodemus
  • Why was he an important guy?
  • He was one of the Jewish rulers, which means he had an important job in their society
  • What did Nicodemus think of Jesus at the beginning of his conversation with him?
  • Nicodemus thought Jesus was a good teacher who was from God
  • What did Jesus tell Nicodemus that confused him so much?
  • That you have to be born a second time in order to see the Kingdom of God
  • What did Jesus mean by that?
  • The first birth is when you are born as a human, but the second birth is when you are born again as a believer in Jesus
  • What was that really famous thing Jesus told Nicodemus that turned into the most famous Bible verse of all?
  • "God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son. Anyone who believes in him will not die but will have eternal life." John 3:16
  • After we are born again, what can we now do that we couldn't do before?
  • See the truth about God, like a light has been turned on, and do good to others

Faith Questions help them apply the story to their lives and open up a conversation about faith and the gospel

Memory Verse hide God's Word in their heart

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul. Love him with all your mind and with all your strength. Mark 12:30